作者stephanie061 (Stephanie)
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標題[閒聊] Couples spend just 2 hrs together a day
時間Fri May 2 17:00:39 2008
那天他說 你知道我們只花了4個月就講了400個小時的電話嗎
400個小時....也就是我四個月中 有超過半個月的時間在跟他聊天
他說 我們應該去查一下世界紀錄 我們應該可以試試看破紀錄
昨天掛掉七個小時的電話以後 天已經亮了
終於了解他每天 天亮才睡的感覺了
我去找到這份之前看過的文章
John Carvel, social affairs editor
Friday July 16, 2004
Guardian
The average British couple spends only two hours awake in each other's
company during a working day. And for those with children in the household,
time together falls to 78 minutes.
In theory that should leave more than 11 hours for couples to develop their
relationship, spend time with children and share housework and pleasure.
But after interviewing couples in 6,500 households and analysing 21,000
personal time diaries, the ONS found the average married or cohabiting couple
spends just 126 minutes in shared activity on a weekday. And that includes 51
minutes in front of the telly.
Time together increases at weekends, when couples spend 210 minutes a day in
shared activities, but that includes 64 minutes of watching TV - regarded by
the researchers as "a passive way of sharing time".
Even for the most popular shared activities, more time is spent doing these
apart than together: 39% of television watching is spent together, 35% of the
time spent eating, 23% of sport and 21% of social activities. About 90% of
housework is done alone - usually by the woman, the ONS said.
Taking the week as a whole, couples spend 150 minutes a day on shared
activities. This includes 30 minutes eating, 24 on housework and childcare and
80 on leisure activities - mostly watching TV. Just 26 of those 80 minutes are
available for shared social life, sport, hobbies and games.
Couples without children average about three hours a day together (177
minutes), while those with children average 103 minutes (78 on weekdays). This
had nothing to do with childcare needs. "The presence of a child of any age had
a similar effect."
我只節錄了重點的幾段
平均一天150分鐘 扣掉30分鐘進食 24分鐘家事 80分鐘有的沒的
剩下16分鐘
是因為遠距離 還是我們真的太長舌?!
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1F:推 carissa:或者是你們太愛!! 05/02 17:07
2F:→ carissa:曾經有一個男友跟我說,我們當時會那麼覺得相愛,是因為 05/02 17:07
3F:→ carissa:一直處於隨時會失去對方的情況裡~後來沒有阻力後反而 05/02 17:08
4F:→ carissa:沒有之前那麼珍視對方的感覺!不過那只是我們的案例啦~ 05/02 17:09
5F:→ stephanie061:樓上一語驚醒我夢中人阿 05/02 17:11
6F:推 jennie0815:屎帶飛好甜蜜喔~沈醉在愛的小河裡 05/02 17:46
7F:→ jennie0815:>///< 我們也很想暢快的講電話 但無奈手機費實在是貴 05/02 17:46
8F:→ BeautyEgg:就 exponential decay 那樣....我不喜歡老膩在一起~ 05/02 17:55
9F:推 AniSll:我都會盧貝比腳幫我吹頭髮 製造機灰相處 :) 05/02 18:01
10F:→ AniSll:機會 05/02 18:01
11F:推 minibabe:小A頭髮那麼短吹風機還沒拿出來就乾了吧XDD 05/02 18:36
12F:推 AniSll:XDDDDDD 其實沒有耶! 芭蕾的才會是醬吧 05/02 19:24
13F:推 babbitt1007:mini中肯阿!!!!!!!!!!!! 05/02 19:47
14F:推 wush0052:這...你們講電話的時數 讓我覺得耳朵會好痛吧??@@ 05/02 22:45
15F:推 animalzone:剛剛太累看錯,以為是小A要幫貝比腳吹頭髮...冏 05/03 01:26
16F:推 tiffpan:我男朋友在dallas我在illinois, 我們每天講至少三個小時:) 05/03 02:17
17F:推 Ballerina:(哭) 我的頭髮毛巾擦過五分鐘就乾............... 05/03 08:35
18F:→ Ballerina:不過當年也很愛男人幫我吹長髮啊 (大哭跑走) 05/03 08:36