作者stday (stday)
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標題[Talk] Social Network
時間Sat Dec 27 01:25:45 2014
I know I sometimes become a negative thinking person > <
Every little signals on FB or IG may make me very anxious.
For example,
I just found that one of my friend, who was my classmate in college,
unfollowed me on Instagram.
Well, it may be for many reasons (long story),
but basically, these reasons are not about her at all and are just about
my personal issues.
I had some troubles and this semester I post many negative postings on
Instagram.
I know those posts are quite gloomy and the image of my personality on
social network is totally different from what it looks like in the physical
world.
Maybe she was frightened by my cynic image on IG and as a consequence,
she doesn't want to see my posts anymore.
Though the nagative postings are not about her at all,
she still dislikes my negativity.
Just want to express this bad feeling now ......
I know I haven't ever been used to how people SOCIAL on social network.
So sad.
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※ 編輯: stday (140.112.29.129), 12/27/2014 01:28:03
※ 編輯: stday (140.112.29.129), 12/27/2014 01:30:42
1F：→ aronhsie12: I don't follow those who post negative article too 12/27 07:12
2F：→ aronhsie12: frequent, either. 12/27 07:12
3F：推 maosun: that's why I locked my negative messages on fb. 12/28 02:06
4F：→ maosun: sometimes we just need a place to give vent to our 12/28 02:08
5F：→ maosun: emotions, no matter somebody sees them or not, aren't 12/28 02:09
6F：→ maosun: we? 12/28 02:09
7F：→ maosun: since you'v lost 1 friend, try not to lose any 1 more. 12/28 02:11
Thank you for your suggestions.
I know that because before I started posting those things,
I also disliked others' negative posts.
I think I really learn a lesson > <
maosun, you're right about it.
It's ture that I should consider preventing myself form losing other friends.
※ 編輯: stday (140.112.4.213), 12/29/2014 01:39:26
8F：推 ilytc: The more you care the more you disappoint, let it go 12/29 13:48
9F：推 lovephillies: well...it all depends on individual really...if 01/04 01:29
10F：→ lovephillies: u cant say what u want on ur page then whats th 01/04 01:29
11F：→ lovephillies: e sense of applying for fb? no hard feeling if o 01/04 01:29
12F：→ lovephillies: thers doesnt like ur post, if thats the way how 01/04 01:29
13F：→ lovephillies: u release ur stress u should do it anyways 01/04 01:29