You may come off as being argumentative today, Leo, because there is some thou ght or emotion simmering beneath the surface. You have something to say, but y ou don't want to come out and say it. Maybe you feel that the other party shou ld already know what's on your mind, but you can't count on that. Even though your temper may be rising, you can keep things in check by speaking up. But be fore you do, put your thoughts on paper so they are completely clear to you, a s this will help you figure out what you really want. They clearly convey what you are thinking. That's the best way to avoid an argument. ————————————————————— 獅子們，你今天會變得很愛起爭議，因為有些想法或情緒正在檯面下累積中。你有一些需 要被說出來的話，但你不想這麼做。也許你覺得其他人應該知道你在想什麼，但你不能要 求別人要這麼做。即使你的心情並不好，但你能把事情控制好，只要你說出來。但在你這 麼做之前，把你的想法寫在紙上，這樣你才能真正的清楚你在想什麼，而這也能讓你了解 你想要什麼。這是避免紛爭的最好方法 —————————————————————懶人包：搞懂你在不爽什麼和你想要什麼 --

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