You can make a change in a situation that you have been wanting to make withou t starting a confrontation. You may think that someone who is central to the s ituation will put up a fight or will become volatile if you raise the issue of making a change. If you approach this person in an aggressive or overly asser tive way, you will put them on the defense. But if you address this with a mor e business-like approach - conveying your ideas and why you think they are bet ter than the status quo - you will get this person thinking. That's the start of change, Leo. ————————————————————— 你能夠為了一個你想要的局勢而做出改變。你也許認為有個關鍵人物會引起一場紛爭或者 是當你想做出改變時他會站在你的對立面上。如果你用過度激進的態度去和這人接觸，他 當然會對你有著防備心。但如果你能夠就事論事，像是說出你的想法並說明為何它會讓事 情變得更好，你將會讓這個人改變心意。那就是改變的開始，獅子們 ————————————————————— 懶人包：就事論事 --

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