You may be trying to change a situation that is reliant on the choices or decisions of other people who don't seem to want to budge from where they are. This puts you in an uncomfortable position, Leo, because you can only take this so far without the agreement of others who don't agree with you. Usually, your powerful and assertive nature assists you in managing issues like this, but these people may be just as powerful and assertive as you. That's why a more cerebral, passionate approach is likely to work. Don't just make demands - express how you feel and why. cr. http://comitic.com/dh -- 字彙 *reliant: 依賴的 *assertive: 有自信的 *cerebral: 理性的 -- 你嘗試想改變靠別人做出選擇或決定的情況，不過其他人似乎不想改變現狀。 這讓你陷入尷尬的處境，因為到目前為止沒有人接受你的意見，只能安於現狀。 一般情況下，強大且自信的特質會幫助你處理像這樣的難題， 但這些人可能也擁有像你一樣的特質。 這就是為什麼更多理性、熱情的態度將會奏效。 不要只是要求，多表現出你的感受和想法。 -- 摘要：霸氣收回來一點，柔情多釋放一點；溝通不是你輸我贏的遊戲。 -- 最近崩潰到想在海邊對著地平線大喊。XD --

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