You frequently consider what other people need before you even begin to think about what you need. Your heart is big and generous, often to a fault. In some ways you see yourself as a certain person's only lifeline. That's a lot of pressure to live with, Leo. But this person is stronger than they appear. Either you want to see this person this way because it makes you feel closer; or this person has created this facade as a means of control. Either way, there are healthier ways to have a relationship. What do you need from this? That's the big question. Figure that out before you move forward. cr. http://comitic.com/dh -- 字彙 *to a fault: 過度的 -- 你經常首先考慮別人需要什麼，才開始思考自己需要什麼。 你時常過度心胸寬大而且慷慨。 在某些方面，你將自己視為別人唯一的救命繩，這伴隨著非常大的壓力。 但這個人比他表現出來的還要堅強。 你之所以想要這樣看待這個人，是因為會讓你覺得和他更親近。 或者只是這個人所營造出來假象，為了控制你。 不管怎樣，都有更健康的方式建立一段關係。 你想要從中得到什麼？這是非常好的問題。 在你行動之前先好好想清楚。 -- 摘要：一段健康的關係不該建立在單方面的給予。 -- 呃，膝蓋又中箭。Orz --

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