你或許正在跟一個很難打交道的人共事。對方可能很情緒化、難相處、愛唱反調等等。對此你感到心灰意冷。你生來就是個領導者，當有人不服從時，你會傾向於對努力不抱有期望。如果從另一個角度切入，儘管這有點挑戰性，不過你也許能看見對方有其他可取的天賦或才能。把焦點轉移到那些才能上，你會發現彼此共事會更容易。 ------------------- 原文: You may be working with someone now who is very difficult to deal with. This person might be moody, cantankerous, oppositional, and more. This may be frustrating for you. Your nature is that of a leader, and when you can't get someone to comply, you might feel inclined to give up on the effort. But if you look at the other side of this coin, Leo, you will see that this person has talents or other gifts to offer despite the challenges. Focus more on those gifts, and you may find that it becomes much easier to work together. ------------------- 沒有不會跑的千里馬，只有眼力不佳的伯樂。 要改變他人個性、硬是讓對方聽話可能只會造成反效果。 把人放在對的位置，或許他就會像滾輪上的小老鼠自動卯起來跑。 又如果那個人是你的上司，就只能搭配向上管理一起服用試試看了:3 --

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