有時一個人會變成惡霸，是因為他們在某方面被虐待。或許他們生命中的某個人殘忍地對待他們，所以他們用類似的方式來對待其他人。現在你可能正在跟某個表現得咄咄逼人、甚至就像個惡霸的人共事。說不定對方本身有要回朔到童年的議題。不過你也會很驚訝，親切的力量是可以改變一個人的行為的。 --------------- 原文: Sometimes a person becomes a bully because they have been mistreated in some way. Maybe someone in that person's life was cruel to them, so they turn around and treat someone else in a similar manner. You may be working with or dealing with someone now who is behaving in a pushy way, or maybe even like a bully. Maybe this individual has issues that could go back as far as childhood. But you may be surprised by the power that kindness can have on altering a person's behavior, Leo. --------------- 讓霸凌的惡性循環終結在你的親切。 昨天當說故事大哥哥大姐姐， 今天負責青少年(成年?)感化院。 獅子們這兩三天要用200%的愛心與耐心維護世界和平:3 --

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