Once you say something in anger, you can't take it back. You can try to backtr ack, but it's already out there. You can apologize, of course, but that doesn' t always do the trick and it certainly can't erase what was said. You may have good reason to be angry with someone today, Leo, but time and deeper understa nding may soften the way you feel. If you say anything at all today, try to en vision your words being spelled out in front of you and hanging in the air as they make their way to the other person. That may help you recognize how power ful they can be. Being compassionate, instead, is always a better option. 一旦在氣頭上說了什麼，就無法挽回了。你可以嘗試往回看，但它無論如何已經覆水難收 ；你可以道歉，但不一定會有效果。當然也不能抹去你所說的話。 獅子們，你們今天可能會對某人生氣，但停下冷靜一下並試著了解事情的全貌，可能會讓 你不那麼憤怒。今天，將那些激烈的詞語向對方說出口之前，試著想像那些字眼浮現在你 眼前，並在空中丟給對方 — 這可以幫助你認知到這些言語會是很具殺傷力的。當然 ， 以同理心面對會是一個更好的選擇！ --

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