People all over the world face various sorts of things, so they need to solve some problems and perform specific tasks in their daily life. However, knowledges about one thing is impossible to be gained by anyone previously without learning it, mistakes are occurred when doing it. It has been said that people learn experiences or knowledges through mistakes for thousands of years. Making mistaks is not shameful; instead, it is considered frequently occurred incidents in people's everyday lives, since people are not as omnipotent as God, and our comprehension and consciousness are not unlimited. The real failure for a person is to repeat similar kinds of mistakes repeatedly, because he or she understands what mistakes had made but is incapable of changing it. Whether a person can avoid making similar mistakes or not is essentially determined by his or her attitude toward it. If one has a firm attitude toward avoiding it, he or she can really scrutinize his or her mistakes, and clearly analyze and concludes the cause of making them. Thus, it will be easier for one to change them, and gain wisdom and experiences from it. Another tip of facing mistakes is to accept other's criticisms and suggestions. As the proverb goes, "outsiders sees more than insiders", it is not very easy to find out mistakes by oneself. Faithful words are contrary to the ears, a person would not be very pleased to take advises from others; but if he or she can take courage to face it, it would be a very good attitude toward mistakes. --

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