A change is needed in an important relationship, and you have been putting it off for too long. Even though you are assertive and not afraid of speaking you r mind, Leo, you have procrastinated because the subject is awkward to you. Bu t the longer you put it off, the more set it will become as a precedent, and t hat would only make it more difficult to deal with. If you approach this casually with this individual - over coffee, for example, it wil l be more like a conversation than a demand. ——————————————————————— 改變是在一段重要的關係中不可獲缺的東西，但你卻一直在逃避。就算你很有自信且不怕 說出你的想法，但是獅子們，你卻因為這課題太尷尬而一拖再拖。但你拖的越久，就越有 可能變成一個慣例，而那只會讓事情更難以處理。如果你用和平日一樣自然的態度去處理 這件混亂的事，像是透過一次在咖啡廳的懇談，比起要求，這會更像是一場有意義的溝通 懶人包：不要再逃啦！用正常心去面對吧，船到橋頭自然直 ——————————————————————— 英文洨學堂 assertive:有自信的 procrastinated：一拖再拖 precedent：先例/慣例 casually:混亂 demand：要求 ——————————————————————— 明天要考多益，加上睡不著就想說練一下英文好了 --

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