A change is needed in an important relationship, and you have been putting it off for too long. Even though you are assertive and not afraid of speaking you r mind, Leo, you have procrastinated because the subject is awkward to you. Bu t the longer you put it off, the more set it will become as a precedent, and t hat would only make it more difficult to deal with. If you approach this casually with this individual - over coffee, for example, it wil l be more like a conversation than a demand. ——————————————————————— 改变是在一段重要的关系中不可获缺的东西，但你却一直在逃避。就算你很有自信且不怕 说出你的想法，但是狮子们，你却因为这课题太尴尬而一拖再拖。但你拖的越久，就越有 可能变成一个惯例，而那只会让事情更难以处理。如果你用和平日一样自然的态度去处理 这件混乱的事，像是透过一次在咖啡厅的恳谈，比起要求，这会更像是一场有意义的沟通 懒人包：不要再逃啦！用正常心去面对吧，船到桥头自然直 ——————————————————————— 英文洨学堂 assertive:有自信的 procrastinated：一拖再拖 precedent：先例/惯例 casually:混乱 demand：要求 ——————————————————————— 明天要考多益，加上睡不着就想说练一下英文好了 --

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