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标题[分享] 重谈女性10个情感需求
时间Sun Feb 26 14:56:41 2017
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想说是不是有人在洛子商那篇里有人看不懂原文呢?
特地再用google翻译再加一点修改
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***这十个情感需求等於是导航器****
分享内容:
标题:重谈女人的10个情感需求
简介:
情感需求是女人脑中时常需要被满足的情感欲望。
(好比人在团体里面受人尊重,也是一种"自尊"的情感需求。
只是女人的情感需求,更偏向於生物性的繁殖导向,与搭讪、泡学有更密接地关系。)
对女人的10个情感需求的了解是重要的。
甚至说,
你应该了若指掌、如数家珍!
因为原书作者Frank B Kermit这样主张,
:你越快能够通过这些女人给你的测验,越早能成为她的伴侣。
此外,对女人的10个情感需求有所了解,还有一个好处:
我们将能够在与女人互动及相处中,如同拥有一个
导航器,
知道我们应该做行动才是正确的。
当你做了对的行动(满足了她的情感需求後),效果等於在她心目中的座位又高了一级。
内容:
一个女人的10个情感需求 - Frank B Kermit
1 - 保护她最宝贵的资产:她的声誉
2 - 女人想要FEEEEL一系列的情绪。 不要试图只让她快乐,
给她从愤怒到狂喜的全方位。 这也是她的精神粮食。
3 - 适应她的小女孩行为。 知道辨别出什麽时候忽略她的耍赖与撒娇,
当她需要你给她一个拥抱。 有时她只需要表现得像一个小孩 。
4 - 占主导地位,承担领导关系的责任。 这包括做出所有的决定,
并在性关系中承担100%的责任。 这一切都是你的错。
5她害怕遗弃。 这是生物上的程序设计,因为在她生下一个孩子的时候,
她需要确保她不会被你遗弃,变得孤独地照顾它。 这涵盖了她的感情安全需要。
6-信任。 这里的关键是让她能相信你对她是诚实的; 即使你知道她不会喜欢你说什麽,
也还是要说。
在女人的现实生活中,她已习惯於人们总是对她撒谎。因为她看起来美丽的外貌,
以及别人想从她这里得到些什麽。
如果你愿意以诚实的态度让她离开,你要证明她可以信任你。
7.保护她的身体安全。 一个人必须证明他能够保护她的身体免受外部世界的威胁。
这是为了让她感到安全。
8 - 女人需要知道你可以处理她的真实性需要。 她就像你一样爱着性爱。,
你得证明你可以处理它。
她需要自然地、无拘束地释放她的性慾,在跟你在一起的时候。
9 - 证明你有高质量的精子,通过显示其他女孩想和你做爱(生育),
和你是一个很好的捕猎者,
你和他的孩子也将是一个很好的狩猎者也足以吸引伴侣。
10 - 证明你不是同性恋。 她知道每个同性恋的男性朋友,她有没有在衣柜里。
你也可以吗?
The 10 Emotional Needs of a Woman - Frank B Kermit
1-The protection of her most valuable asset: Her Reputation
2-Women want to FEEEEL a range of emotions. Do not try to make her happy,
give her a full range from fury to ecstasy. This is a.k.a. her Drama Cookie
3-Cater to the little girl in her. Know the difference when to ignore her ramblings
and when she needs you to give her a hug. Sometimes she just needs to be reassured like a little kid
4-Be dominant and take responsibility for leading the relationship.
This includes making all the decisions, and taking 100% responsibility for the sex
in the relationship. It all has to be the mans fault
5-She fears abandonment. This is part biological programming, as in the event
she is left with a child, she needs to be sure that she will not be abandoned,
and left alone to care for it. This covers her emotional need to feel secure.
6-Trust. The key here is if she can trust you to be honest with her; even
if you know she will not like what you have to say. In a womans reality, she is used to people lying to her
ALL THE TIME because of the way she looks, or they simply want something from her.
If you are willing to piss her off with your honesty, you have demonstrated that she can trust you.
7-Her physical safety. A man must demonstrate that he is capable of protecting her
physically from the threats of the outside world. This is to make her feel safe.
8-Women need to know you can handle her TRUE sexuality. She will only be as wonton
with you as you demonstrate that you can handle it. She needs to explore her sexuality and let it be free with you as a Natural Woman
9-Prove that you have high quality sperm by showing other girls want to have sex
(procreate) with you, and/or you are a good catch and he kids with you will also
be a good catch enough to also attract a mate.
10-Prove that you are not a homosexual. She knows every homosexual male
friend she has that is not out of the closet yet. Could you be one too?
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1F:推 global: 推 感谢分享喔 02/27 12:21
2F:→ sargent: thanks! I commend you memorise these needs, too. 02/27 18:26