哈哈，今天要来跟各位分享的是桌子开场白。 是要叫你拿桌子去砸女生吗?你是有暴力狂啊，乱来真是! 看太多古惑仔，人家那个是冰的啦! 今天的桌子开场白捏，是粉累人的啦，口素付出汗水是有代价的。 首先如果大大们的家里有这种摺叠桌是最好的啦 http://www.hz.com.tw/images/136-023.jpg 太重喔，那扣以搬一张咖轻ㄟ，像这张ㄟ马美败 http://imgur.com/a/VLtRK 要是没有折的你要搬那种人家在办桌的那种圆桌 也可以啦 然後你就抱着桌子走出去门口。 喂--- (桌子就给她砰 !!地摆上去) 大声给她讲说 偶想认识你 ! 还是想展现一下男人的气魄先给她 冰的啦-----!! 一下也可以。 哈，本来没心情po这篇，可是被sshh556大念得有心情啦! --

※ 发信站: 批踢踢实业坊(ptt.cc), 来自: 42.78.80.44 ※ 文章网址: https://webptt.com/cn.aspx?n=bbs/CATCH/M.1489913422.A.89E.html ※ 编辑: sargent (42.78.80.44), 03/19/2017 16:51:09 是我的人这样却po那样的文做的整件事没有魅力吧，你想讲的其实是这个， 你对。我知道了 我现在懂你的意思了。我好像回到到错误的方向 那不然你说要怎麽练习搭讪 那我问你每次失恋追不到女生不心痛吗 对不对，没有付出怎有回报 ※ 编辑: sargent (42.78.80.44), 03/22/2017 05:59:44 影大很喜欢拿出跟needy沾上边就糟糕的观念来审视人! 你是不是对於needy这个主题研究得透彻了，找到什麽奥秘在其中才常常如此。 通常要如此的人也是有钻进去再跳出来才能那麽执一驭万，就跟张三丰研究太极拳一样。 不过话说回来，model有ssshh5566大等的推崇看来是本值得一读的书， 如果我在书店有实体书在手边，我一定翻翻这本让你们惊为天人的作品。 只是之前看s56大的描述全书的内容，好像，比泰勒的蓝图解码课程还要狭隘， 因此我没有特别的动机想看。而且，你们也说得很对，我是缺乏行动。 书我可说是看够了。我都把pdf档案印成对开的小本子一本大概350页，14本左右， 字都很小，真的很像在看小本本的书。(说好不写文章的现在打那麽多字跟写一篇文章 差不多了(汗) ※ 编辑: sargent (42.78.80.44), 03/25/2017 22:46:38 感谢影大的推荐!我刚从以下这网址的摘要，已经将model这本书再度看了一遍， 加上ssshh5566大的摘要，相信我这样有算是对这本你们推崇的好书有点了解了吧? 这网址的摘要我看写得蛮详细，几乎该写的重点都有从书本摘录下来, 在我看完了以後，更加确定...你们实在是不太懂得怎样分辨什麽是好书。 https://agileleanlife.com/models-attract-women-through-honesty/ 看完後，也确定这本书不够满足我想看到的东西，给 你们认为这本书很不错的人一些看法...但是有个点我想先声明--有时把妹的材料就像是 信仰一样。 其实有时候比的是谁比较相信，或许你们有人很相信的然後真的照做，能有惊人的效果 也说不定吧。可是站在客观批评一本书的立场， 我相信只要我能拿得出我的标准，然後客观举书中所没有做到的地方出来，各位也是 多多少少能够听进去我对这本书的批评的。 我是因为影大你提到几个字让我砰然心动才想去一探究竟的，那几个字就是... '产生吸引力的核心'，可是，我所认知的"吸引力"的核心这是很奥秘的，效果也是很神 奇的。最让人匪夷所思的描述就在大卫迪安杰罗的吸引不是选择 提到:"女人无法忘记你! 即使朋友劝告，父母阻拦...也无法阻挡她对你朝思暮想地被你的某种神秘人格特质吸 引。她将会认为你是个真正的男人。 所以这麽神奇的东西，才是我一直在寻找的吸引力，ok? 很显然的，models虽然提到了很多看似杀吸引力的"don't"， 也告诉你们应该怎麽怎麽做，却仍然无法把为什麽与其中奥秘交代清楚。也因此， 如果我请你们保证，如果按照书中所做的都对一个女人做完全套的话，那些什麽不要 needy，demoghraphic，有自己的目标女人群，charactrastic，lifestyle，honesty，等 都做到位，然後女人将对你们'父母拦也拦不住，朋友劝也劝不听，受伤害也要和你在一起 ，无法忘记你，无视於你的贫穷差劲的外表，就是完全受你个性吸引'...可以吗。 不可能，别开玩笑了。真正的吸引力才不是一堆don’t的东西组合得起来的。 好，那既然如此，这本书提到那麽多与一般国内谈男女恋爱的书迥然相异的好观念， 至少，models做到了这地步也很不简单了吧`? ---我的意见是，这是一本教条的书。还是不够好。为什麽呢?让我再继续说给你听.. 有的书告诉人们知识的手法是这样子的... 首先，先假设事物都有个道理源头a，依据这道理产生b的准则，最後依据这准则在我们 生活中的现象是c。 有的书是这样说明知识 [b]---箭头 [c] ， 结束。比较详细的情况可能是会说 [b]----箭头[c]----箭头[c1] [c2][c3]...结束。 可是有的书是这样说明知识 : [a} ---[b]---[c]...if not[b]---[c\d\e] ， because [a']，in somecases [f]，but don't know why。 对我来说，只有"要抽象曾面做些什麽，如何做，与该怎麽做"，这种，我称之为教条。 modles就是这样的书,而那些对女人做到下列10件事，包管她黏你一辈子的网路文章， 温柔贴心让女人爱上你，等等，都是教条。 我绝不是针对作者会不会把妹，我是看他 写出什麽来。你们把对modles的景仰拿掉，看看我说的对照书中内容是不是这样子。 况且menson提到的这些你们认为好的主题，让你们从此奉为圭臬，常常拿出来侦察别 人是不是在needy的这些主题，也不能算个深层次的东西。退一步说，就算是，mensons 也只有指出---别needy!然後，needy是什麽意思然後...怎样叫不needy_，没了。 他这样探讨的深度也不够。或许对你们原本行为都是很needy的人很够了，认为很一语道 破梦中人，可是泰勒蓝图解码说的主题更多，层次也更深，叙理也更前因後果交代相对多 ，然後你们满足於这本东拼西凑的models。还有些观念也是从其他地方来的，片面的 题材，所以我说，与其看这本没头没尾的modles，学一招半式，不如把谜男方法， 蓝图解码，frank的everything out of hermouth is a test与吸引力原理，潘朵拉魔盒， 五本看轻楚。因为书中的东西我已在这些书上看到更完善的，最让我垢病的其实是， models并没有一个系统。教条的书通常都是如此。可是无论一本泡学的书再怎样浅薄， 再怎样肤浅荒谬，我也会敬重的，就是有系统， 相反的，如果一本书作者只说--- "这情况下我们这样是错的，应该这样!" 然後...没了!!即使讲得再棒，可是涉及的点四分五裂，是谈不上系统的。 [解释:system] ---- (有个一贯的思想，可以反覆解释泡学过程 的现象，并衍生出方法的...ex. 谜男方法有!它的主轴思想是SR价值，从开场到在一起过程都完备了 ---有系统| 枪巫方法有，它的主轴思想是女人爱性，从开场到在一起过程都完备了，主要就是在做 RAP，R--relax/A--assumption/P---persistance ---有系统| mensons models它主轴思想是don't needy，但是为何?要有自己life，但是为何? ) 种种我不推崇本书的原因已列於上头，你们也可以继续支持本书。 该书会这样受到人们推崇也是有所不错之处，我只希望 可以别再一直被人说我needy了，只因为看过了menson的models。 ※ 编辑: sargent (42.78.80.44), 03/27/2017 20:20:59 ※ 编辑: sargent (42.78.80.44), 03/27/2017 20:28:43 书既然很厚，你也看得完。相对来说，我的评论你看不完想必是心底嫌弃。 影大你的用意我相信是好，可是我不是随随便便驳斥掉这本书的价值。更不希望你接受 而改变你对此书的推崇。只是想谦卑地有我自己一点评论事物价值的自由... 你说我看几行摘要，我看的是这样的份量，不知道这客观来说，真的是用'几行'来形容? 退一步说，就算是这样的份量对於你来说，我仍然是不够有立场评论这本书好了， 但你这样不在乎我据理分析此书不足之处的态度，直断地凭着我叙述的字眼不认为我 的意见可以参考，这多少都有点'没有站在两人互相尊重'的基准点上表达你的看法。 是你说话不够诚恳了。当然我是很被你的反应刺激到而心中不痛快，你的确是开心的， 可是你这样做人是不对的。 The four most important life areas for the majority of people are love, health, wealth and general happiness. If any of these life pillars collapse, the quality of life dramatically decreases. Out of these four, love is probably the trickiest one, since many factors are beyond your influence. But here’s the thing. You can’t force somebody to fall in love with you, but you can definitely improve your odds. The book to go to if you want to improve your odds as a man dating women is Models: Attract Women Through Honesty written by Mark Manson. Mark Manson is a well-established name in the personal development community. I’m not sure about his status in the pick-up artist industry, but in all personal development forums, his book pops up when it comes to threads that discus dating advice for men. So I decided to read it, a little bit out of curiosity (luckily I never had issues with dating), and also because of Mark’s unique writing style. I was very impressed with the book. Not only is he probably the only author who strictly follows the recommendations for online writing (short sentences, short paragraphs, clearly described ideas etc.), the advice in his book made a hell of a lot of sense. If you are looking to attract the perfect partner or improve your dating skills, Models is definitely the book to go to. That’s why I decided to write a short summary of the book, so you can more easily decide whether to read the whole book or not. The three types of men Don’t be needy if you want to attract women It all starts with neediness. The less needy you are as a man, the more attractive you are to women on average. A needy man does things to impress others, a non-needy man does things because of himself, because that something is exactly what he wants. A non-needy man doesn’t kneel before the opinions of others, he doesn’t look for approval, instead he does things for the mere pleasure of doing. Neediness is a feeling that points to a man who has no spine. Women can intuitively sense it and it triggers a gag reflex in them. Once a woman starts to sense needy behavior in a man, she will run away at full speed. A man definitely has to be affected by a woman and invested in her, but he should never prioritize her over himself. Never miss the best personal development content again. Get 5 free books. It’s about finding the intersection of where you meet your own needs and the needs of a woman. Self-betrayal, where you only look for what she thinks and cares about (or anybody else for that matter), is an obvious sign of a lack of character. And women are attracted to the opposite of that – a man they can respect and trust. Examples of needy behaviors are: Calling too many times or calling too soon Sending dozens of messages Laughing too hard at the jokes she makes Being worried she’ll reject you Looking for her approval The only way to overcome neediness is to change your mindset, self-image, self-perception and self-respect. Only then do your appearance, impression, words and actions also change and women find you more attractive. The rule number one to attract women is to be invested in yourself more than in anything else. And the only way to achieve that is through personal improvement and work on yourself. Love yourself. Otherwise no one else will. Mark Manson A shortcut that quickly backfires if you wish to appear non-needy is narcissism. Narcissistic men are the ones who care only about their needs being met and not about finding the intersection and balance. They often intoxicate themselves with false beliefs about the inferiority of women and try to appear larger than they actually are. The narcissistic tactic may work to attract women in the short term, but in the long term it only leads to unpleasant, shallow and superficial relationships. Definitely not something you are looking for. A narcissistic man is the other side of Mr. Nice Guy. One only takes, and the other only gives. But deep down, both of them are drowning in a desperate need for approval. Open yourself up and honestly show your vulnerability Being vulnerable is not about being weak. Being vulnerable is about showing how emotionally strong you really are. It’s not about exposing your fears and insecurities, but about putting yourself in a position where you can be rejected. It’s about sticking your head out, being bold, different and non-needy. Examples of exposing your vulnerability are: Saying a joke that may not be funny Expressing an opinion that might offend others Not agreeing with others on something Introducing yourself to a group of people you don’t know Asking a girl out and risk being rejected An example of a strong vulnerable man is somebody who stands tall and looks straight ahead, looks people in the eye when he talks to them, always says what he thinks, and has no problem with other people disagreeing with him. When he makes a mistake, he apologizes and corrects the damage, when he sucks at something he admits it, he expresses his emotions in a healthy way and he likes himself even if he gets rejected from time to time for who he is. When you show your vulnerability, you give a chance to women to emotionally connect and relate to you and that is the strongest attraction that exists out there. Again, vulnerability is not about being weak and oversensitive, but about sticking your head out, taking risks, being bold and keeping the center on yourself. Friction that prevents a smooth date The thing that prevents many relationships from forging, even if you show your vulnerability and strong character, is friction. There is friction present in every relationship. Sometimes the friction is too huge for a relationship to even begin. Friction in dating is when a woman finds you attractive, but there are obstacles preventing the relationship from unfolding. The three most common friction causers are: Value differences – religious differences, personal characteristics that are not acceptable etc. External circumstances – she’s married, she’s just moving to a new location etc. Projections The first two are quite self-explanatory. Projection as a psychological phenomenon is a special type of friction. Projection in dating is when a woman projects her past experience with men onto you. It happens because a past emotional traumatic experience (emotional or sexual abuse etc.) is projected to a current situation. That can lead to a woman being afraid of her own sexuality or harboring trust issues and resentment. Friction can be managed to a certain degree. But in some cases, the friction is too big, and no matter what you say or do, or how attractive you are, things are just not going to happen. If the friction is too big, the best thing you can do is to move on. You can’t avoid incompatibility; you can only accept it. You have to accept that many women will reject you not for who you are, but because the friction is just too high for whatever reason. Your job is not to date very woman in the world, but to screen for women with high potential to like you who you are, while there is minimum friction present. The four types of women Polarization and rejections There are four categories into which you can put 3.6 billion of women or so who live on this planet. The ones you don’t find attractive, which means you shouldn’t try to hit on them, seduce them or do anything else with them sexually. And then there are women who are: Receptive – women who respond positively to your advances Neutral – women who don’t respond to your advances, but don’t reject you Unreceptive – women who reject you or ignore you The vast majority of women you meet (if you are an average looking guy) will fall into neutral or unreceptive. That’s the hard fact of life you have to live with, but it’s the truth for most of the male population, you aren’t an exception, so there is nothing to worry about. Women who are unreceptive are the ones who are unavailable or uninterested in a sexual or romantic relationship with you. Period. It may be that the friction is too big, they might be out of your league or they simply don’t find you attractive. An unreceptive woman repeatedly shows signs of disinterest and doesn’t respond or reciprocate your signs of interest; or she rejects you in any kind of way. In the dating world, you will get rejected a lot. You must get rejected a lot, because it’s a good thing. The purpose of rejections is to keep people who don’t belong together apart. Rejections are the ones helping you identify unreceptive women as fast as possible and move on. Rejections are about finding out if she is the right one for you. If a girl rejects you for whatever reason, you wouldn’t enjoy being with her anyway. So it’s time to move on. The second category are the neutral ones. While a man knows if he’s attracted to a woman or not a few seconds after meeting her (because it’s based on physical appearance), neutral women need more time to get to know you. But here’s the most important part. Women never stay in the neutral position for long. Depending on who you are or what you do, they move into the receptive or unreceptive category. You must indicate some sort of sexual interest or you will automatically fall into the friend zone forever. The goal you want to achieve with neutral women is to act in a way that she has to decide in which category she will fall. You want them to stop being neutral as fast as possible. That’s called polarization. She has to decide if she’ll be receptive or not. You polarize her by making a move, and having game helps a lot in being successful at it. As mentioned, if you don’t polarize her she will eventually move to unreceptive by default and won’t see you as dating material anymore. Then it’s too late. Your goal with neutral women is simple – make a move fast and then escalate. There are only a few exceptions to that rule. Some receptive women may initiate the start of relationship with you, but that rarely happens. It can happen if you have an extremely good lifestyle or it you’re extremely good looking. But in general, women are far less invested into a man before sex, so they will rarely make a move. Here are some additional general rules regarding the three categories: To increase the percentage of women who will be receptive you have to improve your lifestyle, social status and how you look. To increase the percentage of women who go from neutral to receptive you have to improve your game or how well good you express yourself and communicate with women. Meeting as many women as possible and successfully sorting them through these three categories will be determined by your boldness and fearlessness; and demographics. Everything that is attractive is polarizing. Mark Manson Demographics matter a lot, so mind your target segment Demographics are the context, demographics are about deciding which women you want to date and what kind of relationships you want to have. The law of demographics states that like attracts like, that’s why you want to find women who like what you like (in the right places of interest). When demographics don’t match up, friction occurs, and you want to minimize friction as much as possible, as we’ve seen. If you want to target demographics correctly, you have to develop your personal lifestyle and you have to know what you want in relationships. You have to know what you value in women, what are the deal breakers, where are the boundaries (and assert them), and you have to know what are your hobbies, the things you enjoy in life and the things you like. When you know all these, meeting women is pretty simple. You can help yourself by making a persona of your ideal woman. If you know your preferences and demographics very well, there are so many places to meet women: Dance classes Events Concerts Amateur sports leagues Charities Classes and meetups Seminars Travel groups Exhibitions and shows Business events etc. The three pillars The three fundamentals of attracting women The three fundamentals of attracting women are: Good lifestyle and presentation, overcoming social and sexual anxieties, being a master of communication and expressing your emotions. Usually the average man is strong only in one of these three fundamentals and mediocre or weak in the other ones. What you want is to work hard on yourself with personal development to have the full package. Before we look at the three fundamentals there is one more thing to mention – age, money and looks. They do matter, with some women a lot, with others not that much, but they always have at least some influence on the level of friction. There are two simple rules. The first one is that the older you are, the more money and status you are expected to have. The second one is that the less money, looks and success you have, the more attractive behavior you need. Nevertheless, you want to be careful not to go after women who only appreciate money and looks. Women who only value good looks most often have their own looks as the only thing to offer. And women who only go after your money usually don’t have other interests and opportunities in front of them. But all things considered, looks, status and money always improve your odds. The first pillar: Good lifestyle and presentation Not everybody is born good looking, but you can always improve your lifestyle and presentation to be more attractive. A good lifestyle and presentation include developing a character, grooming, general maintenance of your body, body language, fashion and fitness. The two Fs, fashion and fitness, are the two things that can very quickly improve your attractiveness and they should be your starting point in improving your personal presentation. Dress according to the fashion rules and standards. Your appearance must show that you are invested in yourself. The second pillar: Overcoming sexual and social anxieties Overcoming social and sexual anxieties is about stopping yourself from buying your own bullshit when you are looking for excuses not to approach, and opening up a conversation and then escalating things towards making love. Anxieties are usually involved in every stage of the dating process, from opening a conversation and showing sexual interest to asking for a number or a date, going for the first kiss and initiating sex. Social anxieties are often connected to other emotional and psychological issues, like a lack of a father figure in the family, childhood traumas, emotionally abusive and toxic home environments, strict religious upbringing, being bullied, and similar traumatic situations. Excessive masturbation and watching porn usually only exacerbates the problem, so an important recommendation is to stop watching porn altogether and not to masturbate more than once per week. Social and sexual anxieties lead to apathy, avoidance, blame game, rationalization and finding excuses, and in the end doing nothing. If you don’t overcome them, you will never approach women. If you don’t approach women, you will never go on dates and find the love of your life or be successful with women. A few facts that might help you overcome sexual and social anxieties are: Women go out to meet men, they want you to be the one, and they love to have sex. Women hate to reject men, it’s not a pleasant thing to do. But attraction isn’t a choice and you have to work on yourself to stir up the right feelings in a woman. Your role as a man is to take action, it’s on you and it always has been. You as a man move things forwards, that’s why you have to develop healthy assertiveness and show it in social situations. What you resist, persist – so stop persisting and start practicing approaching by incremental consistent exposure to stressful situations (don’t do one single extreme exposure). First ask 10 women what’s the time and then move on to more difficult exercises. Feeling fear and acting anyway builds courage and that’s what you want to do and achieve. Courage is a habit, a discipline, and you can build it like you can build muscles in the gym. Honest communication The last pillar of being successful with women is honest communication. Women appreciate intentions in communication much more than men. Men are more about facts and women are more about intentions and the feelings underneath. It’s called sub-communication. Intentions are what makes the difference between teasing and insulting, sharing yourself and bragging, being creepy and being funny. Women generally don’t see your features but how you present yourself, and they don’t hear your words but feel your intentions. Thus you have to be honest with your intentions and two ways to do that are flirting and building an emotional connection. Part of honest communication in the dating world is flirting. Flirting means expressing your sexuality, while a woman still feels sexually secure and can express her sexuality back towards you. By having “game” you build sexual tension, and there are many tools how to do that, like teasing, bantering, negging, being cocky and funny, push/pull method, roleplaying, word games, hand games and many others. It’s up to you to research them. But flirting isn’t enough. You also need to build an emotional connection with a woman. Emotional connection with a woman happens when a strong, bold and attractive man is able to open up and share his vulnerability with a woman. That kind of an emotional connection is the most powerful type of attraction. When you open up, she opens up and that builds a connection that can’t be replicated. You open an emotional connection with a woman by expressing your emotions, motivations and your personal life stories. It’s about relating to feelings, not facts. Another important part of honest communication is the first impression. The words you say when you approach a woman are much less important than your intentions and how anxious you are. Approaching women is no science fiction. Introduce yourself, and while doing it don’t scare her, startle her, linger or hesitate. And always smile. Approach, make a good first impression, flirt, and build an emotional connection. Some other recommendations in the book for honest and effective communication are: Say things with the fewest words possible while keeping the meaning and intent intact. Remove filler words from your vocabulary – ums, uhs and ahs. Create a conversation through statements rather than questions (“I bet you like…”). Cold read as much as possible. Make a statement that you assume is true and then find out if it’s true or not. In every conversation, find jump?off points that can initiate a new topic. Tell stories and become an awesome storyteller. Relate and connect – open yourself up, make sure she opens herself up and then relate to feelings and each other’s experiences. Talk about passions, goals, ambitions, the best and the worst things that happened to you, your upbringing, family life, and so on. Use humor – there are many types of humor you can use if you know how to use it properly, from misdirections, teasing, sarcasm, wordplays, puns, roleplaying and fun games. Creepiness happens even to the best The opposite of flirting and building an emotional connection is being creepy. Some form of communication turns out to be creepy, even if you have the right intentions. Creepiness occurs when you make a woman feel sexually insecure. But here’s the fact, there is no man who is adored by women and who isn’t also creepy some of the time. That’s because you have to stand out from the crowd. Misunderstandings and miscommunications are impossible to avoid. That’s what you have to get used to. You absolutely have to improve your communication skills to not be creepy in general, but from time to time, it’s still going to happen. So don’t be afraid of being creepy, build up your communication skills and start approaching women. The dating process Knowing the rules of the dating process and the answer to what women want The last step is to know the rules of the dating process very well. The dating process is quite traditional and it goes from meeting a woman, getting her phone number, asking her out on a date, repeating the dates until it leads to the first kiss, and then taking her home. At any point of the process you can decide to be exclusive, non-exclusive, a casual couple, friends with benefits, soulmates or to never ever see each other again. Here are a few basic rules to follow during this process: Only ask a woman for her phone number if she shows interest and attraction towards you Don’t ask for a number with a creative pick-up line, just be straightforward Flakes (girls who don’t respond to calling/texting) happen and you should get used to it Send the text in 24 hours to set up a date, use phone more or less only for setting the date, because texting is an awful way to communicate in general Dates are for nighttime, not for lunchtime or afternoons or you’ll end up in the friend zone Don’t do movies, dinners and any other logistic nightmare options Good locations for a date are all the locations where you can be active, participatory, and that allows touching and flirting (parks, exhibits, etc.). You have to do and experience fun things on dates (bowling, dancing, tasting drinks etc.). Chatting away time is not how a date should go. You as a man should constantly be leading the date. At the end pay, unless she physically pulls out her wallet, stops you and insists on paying. And the final question – what do women want? Women want to be desired; women are turned on by being wanted (by a strong and exciting man). They desire to be passionately and uncontrollably desired, but it has to be genuine desire. The more assertively you pursue the woman, the more aroused she will become; if you follow all the advice in the book and don’t turn out creepy. Models – a model of being an attractive man Now you know the difference between having no girlfriends, many girl friends (and staying in the friend zone), and being a wanted man. It’s about getting physical with women quickly and comfortably, while staying honest, vulnerable and representative (fit, groomed, in style etc.). You have to be bold, you have to polarize and you need to be good at flirting, you need to have game. That’s when your odds of a woman becoming receptive to your advances greatly improve. And if she is receptive, she will give you many hidden clues (because she is cheering that you are the one) like longer eye contact, a smile, playing with her hair, being in your proximity, touching you, and putting you as her priority. Models - attract women through honestyWhen you get these signals, it’s on you to act. The kiss is usually the first huge milestone and here is the rule to follow – if you think you can kiss her, you probably could have done that 10 minutes ago. In the end, it’s better to be rejected than to live in regret for the rest of your life. So follow the rule to go for it and escalate when you are in doubt (but absolutely respect any form of no). That’s what the book Models is all about. Providing a framework, a model, for being an attractive, mature man of integrity in the 21st century. If you are dancing on the dating floor, I absolutely recommend you to read the book. Even if I am already long gone from the dating scene, I learned quite a lot about relationships between men and women from the book. ※ 编辑: sargent (42.78.80.44), 03/28/2017 02:25:16