※ 引述《lilipure (lilipure)》之铭言： : ※ 引述《babbitt1007 (振作新生活运动)》之铭言： : : 我想这个经验大家多少都有， : : 跟月经文有点类似。 : : 当你的亲朋好友，或是不太熟的朋友，知道各位的伴侣是外籍人士， : : 你听过对方问过／说过最让你印象深刻，或者很不舒服的反应。 : : 大家来推文吧～ : : 好久没有炒版上的气氛了。 : : 我真是罪过... : : 我的经验就很典型的月经文问题： : : 「外国人都很体贴？」 : : 「你要小心一点」 : 我的几个手帕交听到我跟小詹在一起之後反应两极化 : ＊最让我不舒服的是＊ : "土耳其喔?! 他们国家不是很落後吗?!" : (O.S. 你是住在多先进的国家?!) Haha~ When I was in turkey, whenever I call home, this is exactly the same question my parent ask. in additional, "it's chaos out there, lot's of wars" I actually do'nt know how to explain everything to them but reply "not like that, I am very safe!" But they are my parents, I can understand. : "土耳其人是中东人对吧?! 中东人好像都蛮没水准的耶!!" : (O.S.明明就是西亚!!!) : "外国人都只是玩玩而已,你别再被骗了" : (O.S. 你乾脆说外国人都是外星人好了!!) sort of, when some of my friends know that my bf is a turkish, "oh, turkish, he must be handsome!" or "oh, turkish, they are notorious!" Basically, I take those as positive concern. : "原来你一直练习英文就是要钓个外国人" : (O.S. 这世界上学英文的人目的都在互相钓来钓去吗?!) : ＊最让我印象深刻的是＊ : "听说他们翻滚的技巧跟姿态都很多很不错?!" : (O.S. >\\\\\\\\\< ) : "他长这麽高,size 一定很大吧?!" : (O.S. 这是不能说的秘密!! XD ) yeah...this one is also impressive to me. I doubt thatg they dare to ask...however, they did! : "听说他们很大男人?!" : (O.S. 不全都是这样吧?!) My experience: chauvinism! my friend said that with definate tone, which means telling me to watch out! Or "oh-o, turkish? people in middle-east beat wife...." : "以後我们去土耳其旅游就全靠你啦!!" : (O.S. 带你们去地中海游泳?! XD ) : (啊~~最後一天上班.....大家士气低落......) the rest of event such as "muslim cant eat pork ne" "oh-o, if you marry with him, you will be a muslim and change name." Frankly, I feel that I' m lucky and not suffer much from this kind of abuse. My best friends support me and respect my decesion. The only concern is my parents by far. Once i really felt hurt is from my neighbor. When she knows that he is a muslim, she told me that lots of terrorists are muslim with a face. Moreover, when she knows that we are in a long distance relationship, she shaked her head and told me to give up asap. Since then, she is on my black list. -- 我要勇敢! 但坦然的确令人心伤! --

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