You are still being loyal to a commitment you made a long time ago, even though it has long since reached its expiration date. You may have taken on a role for someone who needed help at the time, only to have them become more and more reliant on you, which isn't really fair to you, dear Moonchild. Now this has become a part of your routine, but it is eclipsing some of the time you have to do things for yourself - things that you want and need to do. It's time to have a heart-to-heart. It's a kind thing - because the other person needs to evolve. 你依然信守着你很久以前所做出的承诺，即便它早已超过兑现的日期也一样。你也许 曾经为了某个在当时需要帮助的人承担起某种角色，结果却让他变得愈发依赖你，而 这对你来说其实并不公平，亲爱的月之子。现在这已经变成了你的日常生活的一部份， 不过这正在占据你必须为自己做些什麽的时间——而那些是你想做也必须做的事情。 现在是时候来一次坦诚相见的对话了。这是好事——因为对方该长大罗。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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