When you worry heavily about something, it is often about either security or someone you care for deeply. You want to know - no, you need to know - that everything will be fine, and your mind loops through all the possible outcomes again and again. That's a lot of energy directed at something that has not even happened, dear Moonchild. Your energy would be much better spent if it were directed at imagining the most hopeful outcome and believing that it will be. You have the power to infuse a current concern with hope and optimism, and you should. 当你非常忧虑某件事情的时候，这往往是关於安全感，或是某个你很在乎的人。你想 知道—不，你必须知道—一切都会没事的，而你会在脑海中一遍又一遍地盘点与反覆 思量所有可能的结果。你把大量的精力耗费在一件甚至根本还没发生的事情上，亲爱 的月之子。如果你把那些精力运用在想像最充满希望的结局，并且相信它真的会实现， 这样才是比较好的做法。你拥有让现况满希望与乐观的力量，而你也应该要这样做。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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