You may be reviewing an argument or some other kind of negative event over and over again in your mind. It has to end the same way every time, of course, because it has already happened. You can't change it now, dear Moonchild, and that fact may be causing you to feel lost. The words "if only" may also be circling in your mind, but you might as well let them off at the exit, because they're only damaging you. You can't change what happened, but you can forgive yourself and get off that track. You have the power to make beautiful things happen, so why waste your time on sad thoughts that won't change anything? 你也许在心里一而再、再而三地回想某次争执或是某种类型的负面事件。想当然尔， 每次的结局都必须一样，因为事情已经发生了。你现在没办法改变它了，亲爱的月之 子，而那个事实可能会导致你感到迷惘不已。「如果当初」这个词或许也正在你的心 底盘旋，不过你也是要让那些念头随风而逝，因为它们只会伤害你。你没办法改变已 经发生的事情，但是你可以原谅自己，并且不要重蹈覆彻。你拥有让美好的事物发生 的能力，那为什麽要把自己的时间浪费在无法改变任何事情的悲伤想法之上呢？ -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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