You may feel guilty because you don't feel the compassion you think you should for a family member who is navigating a difficult time. It's not like you to feel devoid of empathy, dear Moonchild, and there is your answer right there: if you struggle to feel compassion, it may be because this individual has wronged you in the past, or your intuition is telling you that their story isn't entirely authentic. Listen to your sixth sense. Understanding the emotional reality beneath the surface will show you exactly how to handle it. 当你的家人正在经历一段很辛苦的时期，你也许会因为自己没有产生应有的同情心而 感到内疚。缺乏同情心并不是平时的你会做的事，亲爱的月之子，而你的答案正好就 在这里：如果你难以感受到同情或怜悯，那麽这可能是因为这个人以前曾经亏待过你， 或是你的直觉正在告诉你他的故事并不完全是真的。倾听自己的第六感，理解并看清 潜藏在表面之下的情感真相将会显示出你究竟该如何应对与处理。 -- 愿所有相遇都是美好而不留遗憾。 --

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