Detachment is the most efficient way to keep from getting hurt. you tell them that you care for them, you love them, you like spending time with them, and you always have a great time with them, but deep in your heart, you keep detached from them. when you are emotionally detached while acting like you aren't, you can always secure yourself from rejection and abandonment. No sooner had you got dumped than you got over it. You act warm, but you couldn't care less. You plausibly cater to their needs and say nice things to win their trust and satisfy their vanity. All aims to avoid getting too intimate with someone or something. Attachment is a confinement to your free will as well as your action. Free from emotional attachment, you be nice whenever you feel like being so, you appear indifferent whenever you feel like doing so, and you act cruelly whenever you feel like doing so. And you become a walking zombie with no guilt whatsoever attached. Thus,the ultimate Detachment ever achieved. --

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