I recently came across a book call "A self-made Man" by Norah Vincent It's basically a research that she had conducted by posing as a man in a new city with a new job. As simple as the idea may sound, the results were stunning disturbing. Long story short, men keep far more information from their partners than they think; there is almost always sombody evaluating your manhood; Women are hard to please: They want their man to be in control, strong in spirit and body while also tender and vulnerable inside, they want someone to lean on and hold on to, to look up and collapse beside. I'll put up the rest later --

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