You might be irritated by someone's behavior now, Gemini. You may be able to t hink of a lot of things you would like to say about it. But right now, your th oughts may be geared toward retaliation rather than restoration, since they ma y be causing you some trouble or embarrassment. You probably can help if you w ish to. You may be able to give some great advice that could change someone's trajectory. But first, find a way to think of this as helping them - not as la shing out at them. That's a much better way to approach it. 现在，你也许被某个人的行为给惹怒，双子们。 你也许在想很多你想要说的事情。 但是现在，你的想法可能是为了报复而不是为了恢复， 因为他们造成你一些麻烦或者是尴尬。 如果你愿意，你大概可以帮忙。 你也许能够给一些伟大的建议，那可能改变某个人的轨迹。 但是首先，找到一种方法将此视为帮助他们 — 而不是猛烈抨击他们。 这是一个更好的方式去处理它。 Ps. 如果有误译请指教，谢谢。 --

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