影片又重新放上去了,短LINK: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JbgQrXKrSGA Kit讲的话也有啦! 中文一并附上 感谢KCC帮主Ting做的文字记录, 并帮我校正译稿 Kit的思考有她一贯的内省风格, 比她少年, 写那首诗时候成熟许多 尤其她很能掌握自己要传达的信息, 对RGS的学姐学妹们 即使这只是个首映会 另外我想对这位, 既有Sense又有文才, 又不写部落格的人说: 「根据科学研究, 听众如果只靠听觉, 70%以上的内容会忘光光」 还是帮你记下来先! :) I'm 35 this year and for the first time in my life, I joined the corporate world. Well, for a lot of people, it's the other way round. They start off slogging in the corporate world, and then suddenly they go, "ok, I'm gonna break off and be an artiste." I was very lucky, I left school and immediately became an artiste for 15 years and then suddenly, I think, "wait a minute.. I'm missing out on life" The life, that you know that.. everybody else has. I was very lucky, like SN said , to have lived my dream.. and you are totally right, we had that conversation before this. 我在今年35岁时，首次踏入白领上班族的世界。当然，对大部份人来说，这是另一种生涯 循环。他们都是从公司上班开始奋斗，有天忽然想离开，＂好罗，我要脱离上班日子去当 个艺人！＂我很幸运，我离开学校後马上当了艺人，一当就是１５年，然後忽然想到：＂ 等下..我输掉了我的生活＂生活，你知道，每个人都拥有的那种，我非常幸运，像ＳＮ讲 的，可以梦寐以求，我的事业竟然是我的梦想。。(看着SN) 我们之前也谈过，而且你也 说的对。 It's true that when you have achieved your dream, it's not quite what you think. Not saying that it's not good, but it's not like.. you think you see fireworks and champagne popping, and it isn't like that. But if you have worked really hard for it, you do feel a deep sense of satisfaction, it becomes very earthy, very real..and nothing like woo..you know, it's not delirious.. 的确，当你已经完成了你的梦，它跟你想的不大一样。不是说它不美好，只是它不是你以 为的那麽烟火辉煌、香槟四射；成功不是这样的。但如果你为了它历尽艰苦，努力打拼， 你真的会有一种深刻的满足感，成功是很脚踏实地，实实在在的，不是像，噢～～那种 虚幻不切实际的事。 And the other thing was, this doppelganger thing, I think I am going through it everyday. I carry two namecards. One is, I'm at Hill&Knowlton, PR consultancy, so there's that namecard that says "campaign specialist", and there's another one that belongs to my management and it's kept in the same namecard holder, and so depending on which role I am playing, if somebody talks to me, like a PR professional, there comes out the PR card, or if somebody says, the moment they go.. "oh.. could we invite you…Ok, that management card comes out, and I say "Don't speak to me. Speak to my manager" And so, it's a constant negotiation between all the different roles to play. And I don't think you need to an artiste/pr professional to do that, I think all of us are switching between the roles of being a mother, a wife, a girlfriend, a teacher, a student, so I think all of us have our struggles. 还有一件事，关於＂另一个自己＂的事情，我想我每天都经历着这种生活。我带着两张名 片两种身份，一个是伟达(Hill & Knowlton)的公关顾问，名片上写着＂活动企宣＂，还 有另外一个是我的艺人管理，两种名片都收在我的名片夹中，就看我当时扮演哪一种角色 ，如果有人跟我谈公关方面的事情，公关名片就跳出来；或者某人说，现在他们要做某事 ，＂嗯，我们可以请你来吗？。。＂那艺人管理名片就会跳出来，＂别跟我谈，请跟我的 经纪人商量＂，像这样，不停地去调适、扮演两个截然不同的角色，我想你不必是艺人／ 公关的角色才能体会，我想我们都要切换在很多角色当中，比如母亲，妻子，女朋友，老 师，学生等，我们都会在不同的角色中挣扎、矛盾与对抗。 And I was thinking before I came here today if I have to say the one thing that I think is important for making tough decisions in life, it would be faith. I would say it is faith. Why do I say that? I think we all, it's common knowledge, we know we need to work hard, we need to persevere, we all know all these things, it's just a matter of can you get down and do it. But I realise that with the toughest choices I had to make in life, whether it was career, relationships, relocation (geographically), it was always faith, it had to be something bigger than myself because I know my own limits, and I know I can't, we all know oh yah, we gotta be responsible for what we do, but sometimes, we know that ok.. should things go really bad.. or should things go really well, it's sorta out of your hand. Anyway, it is… For me, I'm not just talking about a religious faith. For me, it is. It could be the philosophy you hold, it could be someone you love, but you have to have a belief that is outside of yourself, I feel and that way, I think you can weather all the difficulties in life, you can live with the mistakes you make, and enjoy the successes you have. And so yah, this is my take on it, and thank you. Thank you all. 我来这里之前有思考过，我想讲给各位的事情，是做生命中重大决定时很重要的一件事， 就是保持信心，我会说那就是信心。为何我要提这个？我想我们都会，这是常识，我们知 道必须辛勤工作，必须坚持到底，我们都了解诸如此类的事，这取决於你能否记下它并真 的照做。但我体认到，生命中种种最重大的决定──职业，人际关系，迁往别地（地理上 的），都需要信心去克服，无疑地某些事大过我的范围，因为我知道我是有限的，知道我 有所不能，我们都了解的，没错我们必须为我们做的事负责任，但有时候，我们知道那种 。。万一事情变得很糟糕呢，或者变得非常成功呢，事情多少超出你的掌握。总之，对我 而言，我想说的不止是宗教上的信心，虽然对我它是的；它可能是你奉行的哲学，可能是 某个你爱的人，但你必须有超乎你以外的信心，我感觉到那方法，我想你必能度过生命中 所有的困难，你能跟你犯的错安然度日，亦能享受你得来不易的成就。这就是，今次我要 带给大家的讯息，谢谢，谢谢各位。 --

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