You may be miles apart in a negotiation with someone now, Leo, despite trying to influence the other person, and vice versa. It may seem pointless to continue negotiating at this juncture because you can't even imagine agreeing to the other person's terms; nor can you imagine the other person agreeing to your terms. But somewhere in the middle is a place where you can both meet and be satisfied, if not completely happy. Try giving a little, and most likely the other person will do the same. With open communication, you should be able to reach a workable solution. cr. http://comitic.com/dh -- 字汇 *vice versa: 反之亦然 *juncture: 时刻 -- 现在你或许与某人隔空喊话，不论怎样试图影响他，他一样也在影响你。 这时刻继续喊话似乎是毫无意义， 因为你甚至无法想像自己接受他的条件，同样的，你也无法想像对方接受自己的条件。 但总有一个你们双方都可以接受、满意的条件。 如果不是非常满意的话，试着退一步，而他很有可能也会这麽做。 透过开放式沟通，你们应该可以找到有效的解决方式。 -- 摘要：硬碰硬只会吃亏啦。 -- 最近有点迷惘， 知道对方一定会放手支持我的追逐，而自己却眷恋着他给的自由。 啊啊啊啊～大家周末愉快，希望台风不会造成影响。囧 --

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