The preconceived idea you have about someone in your life may not be entirely accurate. You like to size things up before you enter into new situations, Leo, because it gives you the sense of having greater control. But sometimes you jump ahead of yourself and make assumptions based on what you do know, your perceptions, and some of your past experiences that may have little to do with the person you are now judging. Hold off on those ideas and experience this person without prejudice. cr. http://comitic.com/dh -- 字汇 *size sth/sb up: 判断 *have little to do with: 与此无关 -- 你对於某人先入为主的想法并非完全正确。 你喜欢还没有进入情况就预先判断，因为这让你有强烈的掌控感。 但有时候你太快根据你所知道的、看法以及过去的经验做出判断。 这些对於判断这个人没什麽关系。 暂缓这些想法和经验，不要对这个人保有偏见。 -- 摘要：别因第一印象就否定一个人，实际相处过後再决定！ -- 可是第一次见面就说些花言巧语的话，有点难不自动归到某一类。Orz --

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