也许你把自己的缺陷当作自身的一部分，并决意让它代表全部的你。狮子们，大家都有缺点。而我们也有众多优点。没错，就是这些元素造就了自己，而且有些缺点反而驱动了某些美德。别对自己太严苛。你是拥有许多优点的人。把注意力放在优点上，并认可自己是张极其华美的织锦。 ---------- 原文: You may be thinking about all of your flaws as the "sum of your parts" and deciding that they represent your "whole". We all have flaws, Leo. And we all have many outstanding qualities as well. Yes, all of these elements make us who we are, and some of our flaws are the generators of some of our virtues. Don't be so hard on yourself. You have numerous outstanding qualities. Focus on these, and recognize that you are a beautiful tapestry. ---------- 是好是坏，都是自己。 因为胆小，所以行动前会做好事前规划，谨慎行事，减少计画的风险。 因为敏感，感受得到情绪波动，包括他人的，所以能够有十足的同理心，给予他人温柔。 自己认为的缺点，或许是他人眼中无可替代的优点。 只看得到缺陷的时候，试着问问旁观者。 或许他们能给你意想不到的观点:3 --

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