You may be dealing with someone now who is too timid to say what they really w ant or believe. For you Leo - someone who is very strong and direct - this can be quite frustrating. You believe in telling it like it is. You can see no re ason to mince words. But you can't change someone else's way of relating, so y ou will have to adapt if you want to get the information you need. You may hav e to ask a lot of questions. You may have to lure this person out of their she ll. Surely with your charm, you can do it. — 你现在可能正和一个人打交道，而他却因为过於胆怯而无法说出他们真正想要的东西。 对你而已， 这种状况可能会非常令你喔沮丧。 你认为应该有话直说。 你觉得没有理由去隐瞒任何东西。 但是你不能改变别人的方式， 所以如果你想获得你所需的消息，你必须适应。 你可能不得不提出很多问题。；你可能不得不把这个人从他们的防备中引诱出来。 当然 ，凭藉你的魅力，你可以做到。 --

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