有个人持续向你寻求精神支持，你或许需要跟对方划清界线。虽然你是个优秀的引导人，善於激励他人达成梦想。然而有人总是宁愿依赖你，也不愿靠自己。狮子们，当你乐於像这样帮助他们摆脱困境，你也会被视作他们唯一的救生索，然後一切变得难以抵抗。开始鼓励对方独立一点吧，这样会帮上他们一个大忙的。 -------------- 原文： You may have to draw a strong line with someone who keeps turning to you for moral support. Although you are an excellent motivator and very good at inspiring others to reach for their dreams, there may be someone in your life who relies on this from you always, rather than relying on themselves. While you love to help out in this way, Leo, it can become overwhelming when you are seen as someone's only lifeline. Start encouraging this person to be more independent. You will be doing them an immense favor. -------------- 互相支持能加强人与人之间的连结， 然而单方面的依赖却会加速连结的腐蚀。 若感受到对方总是只在需要被支持、被认同时才出现， 那就得好好想想这段关系是互相往来，还是只是单方的吸取能量了:3 --

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