Someone else's standards may unintentionally limit your options. Your standard s are high, Leo, but you also want to please someone in your life, and so you have gone along with what they think you should want rather than what you actu ally want. Maybe you are even trying to convince yourself that it's the best t hing for you to do. But is it working? If you have a nagging doubt about an op tion you are leaning toward, stop and seriously question it. Make sure you uph old your own ideals, not someone else's. 今天要注意你的选择会被别人的标准影响。 狮子们，你们的标准一向很高，但问题出在你们总是希望取悦别人，以致於你们会做出「 别人认为你需要的」，而非「你想要的」选择；甚至有时候你试着说服自己，这才是最好 的选择。然而，真的是这样吗？ 如果在你心中一直对你的目前的选择抱有疑问，请停下脚步，认真质疑。确认你坚持的信 念由心而生，而非别人赋予你的期待。 — 如有误译还请指正 :) --

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