Something that seems fair to you may not seem fair at all to someone else. Can't they see why it is right, Virgo? Or can't you see why it isn't right? These kinds of situations can be hard to navigate, and you may be facing something like this now. The only real way to come to an agreement is to talk it out and to truly hear what the other person is saying. Arguing and trying to "win" won't do it. It isn't about winning. It is about understanding. When you do, just a few small compromises might make it fairer for all involved. -- Copyright c Daily Horoscope. Download it now — http://comitic.com/dh 有些你觉得很公平的事情；在别人眼中未必如此。 （你很好奇）他们为什麽不觉得这样是对的？还是看不出来为什麽不对？ 诸如此类的处境很难驾驭，但现在你必须面对这样的状况。 要让彼此想法达成协议的方法只有一个，就是要说出自己的想法，同时也倾听对方在讲什 麽（不要急着反驳，把话听完）。 争执和试图「赢」过别人都行不通。 因为这样的局面根本无关胜负；「理解对方」反而是更重要的事情。 当你试着理解别人的看法，只要稍为沟通，就能使所有参与事件的相关人等，不但觉得公 平，也能和谐团结的进行工作。 --

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