外国秃 死种天黑特黑特载 黑特仔惹你妈 干 写这麽长一篇是要打死人唷 干机掰 死黑特载 机掰操黑特载黑太到外国偷头仔写长文谯翻 27. Focus on your Lovers. Haters can DRAIN you — you’ve got to put your focus on those who love you instead. And as soon as the haters are out of your life, all those people who loved you or wanted to or thought they might but stayed away because of the haters’ games will come out of the WOODWORK. 28. Haters usually hate demographics, not just individuals. They will claim they don’t, but you will find bias against groups of people here somewhere. It might not be as bad as racism or homophobia, but it will be akin to it. Hatin’ is a way of life. No one just accidentally does it. 29. Look for who the Players are. When 50 Cent went after Ja Rule, he wasn’t hating. It looked like it, but he was making a cold calculated move. He knew that taking on Ja Rule was a great opportunity, a win-win for him, and a lose-lose for Ja Rule. Unless you’re a rapper, that’s not an approach I recommend in life or business, but if you observe your haters you may discover that one of them or their supporters doesn’t hate at all: they might actually have an incentive. In business this is usually money or status. Keep your eyes on the Players, or keep your eye out for them. But most likely… there are no players. There is no strategy. Just hurting people bumbling through the difficulty of being alive. 30. Haters can’t acknowledge that they’ve been wrong. If you ask them when the last time they did wrong and acknowledged it and made it right, they will say “I try not to ever hurt people” or some other such excuse. They lack the ability to say “Hey, I was wrong here. And my motives were wrong, and I want your forgiveness. Will you forgive me? And how can I make it right?” No hater has ever said those words. What should separate you from haters is that you can say it easily. 31. Haters and their supporters do not want healing and reconciliation. They do not want healthy relationships — they want relationships where they have disproportionate and unearned power over others. Also, hatin’s too tasty, and their egos are too stiff. 32. It sucks to be a hater or to be in relationship with them. Have pity, and try to show kindness. Fight for what you believe in, not against people who are hurting. Thank God every day that you are not on their path. 33. The rest of the world knows more about the situation than you do. People who are levels above you are watching it, they watch you grow, they watch you hurt, and they’ve probably watched you be stupid, too. They may gently try to guide you, but they won’t say much. They don’t need to. If they’re at a level above you — in life, development, business, leadership, whatever — they’ve had haters, too. 34. When haters are mixed in with your lovers, you get a warped sense of both. You’ll feel things and think it’s universal. But haters change the way you interact with your lovers. Once you can spot the difference, all your relationships change. Now you have something more powerful than hate: you have genuine loyalty and love. 35. Whoever trains harder, wins. When you’re haters are toasting champagne at the damage they’ve caused, you should be working. When they are spending money they stole from you, you should be doing pushups. When they are lying about you behind your back, you should be on your 90th hour of the week. Get hard. Train every day to fight, and you will win. And I don’t mean begrudgingly, either. Haters are the kind of people who complain about having to do difficult things: Leaders Love It. Eat like a lion. Enjoy every minute of it. A warrior is not a warrior if they don’t grin at the possibility of a challenge. And you know what? Public champagne is not for winners. Winners toast privately with those they love — and then they fall asleep. If you don’t love the fight, you’re giving them your power. A truly courageous heart loves having the odds against them. Out-work them, out-read them, out-write them, out-love them and out-live them. It won’t be hard. 36. Go be you. Be so much you that it blasts the world apart. SHINE. --

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